Friday, March 6, 2015

Five on Friday

I was stumped for today's link up.  Five things from this week...the only thing on my mind is the ever growing munchkin inside of me.  Pretty much everything revolves around either preparing for her, preparing for life with her, or getting ready for my maternity leave.  I decided to look to Pinterest and share five of my favorite resources that I saved to help me plan for life with a baby.

What do babies need?

Carseat troubles?

Carseat Blog on Youtube has you covered

What do I need in the hospital?

And for postpartum needs?

How do I pack for a baby?

I pinned so many resources but I ultimately found these the most helpful.  I'd recommend them to another FTM and maybe after my own experience I'll have something useful to add to at least one of these lists. Some of this is good common sense but with third trimester anxiety and baby brain it is so much easier to ask veteran moms for opinions and look for suggestions through mommy blogs.  I'd like to feel prepared even if this baby is going to shake up every bit of security and confidence that I have as a human being.  It's not just a learning curve, it's a whole new adventure!

I'm not sure when I'll link up, likely it will be pretty late at night.  My childhood friend is getting married this weekend and it's going to be a busy Friday and Saturday.  After this weekend I'm not making any big plans for a good long while.

Happy Friday!


Wednesday, March 4, 2015

Hometown Baby Shower...

On Sunday my mom, aunt, and cousins gave R and I a shower to celebrate baby girl and it was beautiful.  It was held in the fellowship hall of the church I grew up in and both sides of my family and our church family was invited to celebrate.  Most of these photos were taken before guests arrived but my mom chose a "toy" theme and made all these beautiful gift baskets full of toys, books, and other goodies to use as centerpieces.  We received so many clothes, diapers, wipes and so many monogrammed items. We felt so blessed and drove home with the jeep full of cute items for nugget.   She even made R and I adorable rattle corsages to wear during the event.

















We're getting close and it's getting real!

Tuesday, March 3, 2015

Bumpdate: Week 36


Size of the baby:  Large cantaloupe, about 6 #

Total weight gain: 27 pounds total, I'm starting to feel the weight shifting a bit.  It seems like she might be getting a little lower.

Maternity clothes: All. The. Time.  I've turned my attention to nursing apparel.

Gender: It's all pink in our house.

Nursery:  No change from last week.  We still haven't gotten our bookcase yet but we will stop procrastinating in the next few days.  We had a shower on Sunday and received so many beautiful gifts that we haven't had time to sort completely through.  For now my girl's room has a pile of baby clothes that need to be organized and hung up along with some misc items that I need to find a place for.  We also need to figure out a better diaper storage solution but we aren't complaining about it.

Sleep:  I still love to sleep.  I'm noticing that I can go to bed later and wake up earlier without my alarm.  I'm exhausted after work though - I might not nap but I usually need to lay down for a while.

What I miss:  Feeling like "myself", lately I just feel like someone else.  Like I'm in someone else's body.  This experience has been a blessing but it's difficult to describe how miserable I can feel and how happy I can be at the same time.

Cravings:  Frozen yogurt, chocolate milk, cinnamon gum, and buttered toast.

Other symptoms:  I feel very full and it's harder to eat a meal.  I definitely get exhausted easily and after work I'm worn down.  Reflux of course.  Dull lower back pain and feet/leg pain.  Typical late pregnancy symptoms I suppose.

Best moments: I'm going to the doctor every week now and they will be checking for labor progression.  I'm having braxton hicks which are annoying but not debilitating.   I opened a case for FMLA so I can get my notice for a leave from work.  We had our last baby shower and it was a major success that deserves it's own post.

Oh, and I'm working on with my modified bed rest restrictions and having to force myself to "take it easy", though it's really stressful because I feel there is so much left to do before she arrives. #thirdtrimesteranxiety



Sunday, March 1, 2015

My favorite registry items...

Registry Favorites

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Hello all!  I wanted to share some of my favorite registry items so far.  Of course baby girl hasn't been able to use any of it so far but I'm ecstatic over the things we listed.  Most everything we registered for came highly recommended either by reviews or by friends.  All I heard from other moms was Aden + Anais anything so I definitely kept that in mind for burpies, bibs, and swaddle blankets.  Since we will have a young infant in the summer, muslin is perfect to keep her covered but cool.  

I'm loving our Britax B-Ready travel system and I can't wait to see it in action.  

Her crib is my love, those beautiful spindles are the absolute best.  

We will likely try a variety of pacifiers and bottles but for now we have the Tommee Tippee and Soothies to start. 

At my first shower I received my Skip Hop diaper bag, I didn't get gray though, mine is the limited edition French Stripe and now that I have it packed I can appreciate the fact that it uses vertical space instead of filling up like a duffle.  

We have several Halo sleepsacks, this style came highly recommended by one of my best friends.  

My husband likes the auto rock and play from Fisher Price, we will likely have it permanently set up in our living room.  

Oh and those Zutano infant shoes....cute!  I love all the color choices, I stuck with one multi colored pair since she will grow out of them quickly but I will probably buy them in a bigger size as well.  Zuntano's have snaps so they wear similar to a sock and I hope they stay on her tiny feet.













Saturday, February 28, 2015

Bumpdate: Week 35


**Update from last week's story.  I went to the doctor on Wednesday (my Tuesday appointment was rescheduled due to snow) and I was cleared for work...Yay!  I have modified restrictions, no bending, lifting, twisting, etc but my job is not labor intensive so none of these are a problem.  I'm hoping to work as much as possible this month to get things ready for my temporary while I'm on leave.  The doctor couldn't narrow down what caused the bleeding from last Saturday but they think I may have had a partial abruption so for now we just have to wait and see and I've been instructed to call immediately if I see any more spotting.

Size of the baby: Large cantaloupe, about 5.5 lbs

Total weight gain:  26 pounds

Maternity clothes:  Every. Single. Day.

Gender:  Our daughter and I never get tired of saying it.

Nursery:  It's basically done, we still have to order the bookcase.  My MIL bought the baskets for it so I can go ahead and organize.  I still have one more shower this weekend so I may have to do a bit of rearranging depending on what goodies we receive.

Sleep:  I love to sleep!  My third trimester anxiety is worse at night and my mind races with fears, to do lists, and nervousness.  I pray and God quiets my mind enough to sleep but it takes a while.

What I miss:  Being able to comfortable breathe and getting off the sofa without assistance.  I missed working this week too.  Three days on bed rest made me stir crazy.

Cravings:  Chocolate milk!  Cinnamon gum! And one random craving for chicken wings in hot sauce.  Oh and give me all the tater tots!

Other symptoms:  Reflux, surprise surprise.  I have to take it easy these days.  I'm short of breath often and I'm having some lower back pain.  Luckily no terrible symptoms though, no nausea, no linea nigra, no stretch marks so far, no swelling, no extreme cramping or pain.  I do get Braxton Hicks and they are really annoying but pass fairly quickly.  My poor belly button is hanging in there, it's almost flat and shocks me when I look in a mirror.

Best moments:  Organizing for our nugget!  We made room for her bottles in our kitchen cabinet and room for her bath supplies in our guest bathroom.  It's amazing to see baby items popping up in all the rooms of our home.  One day it will be commonplace but for now it's new and exciting.  Oh and the diaper bag is packed.  Our hospital bags are packed.  The stroller and the car seat are in the car.  My breast pump is ordered.  And we met with the pediatrician on Monday.  Check, check and check!  I can't stop thinking about that sweet baby in the ultrasound last weekend, happily moving around despite the fact that I was laying in a triage bed scared to death that something might happen to her.  I can't wait for her to make an appearance but she needs to bake just a bit longer.

Friday, February 27, 2015

Five on Friday

Favorite Maternity Basics

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So today's five on Friday is going to be a bit different.  I wanted to share my favorite maternity basics.  I really didn't want to have an extensive maternity wardrobe because it's a hefty investment for a few months of wear.  My biggest suggestion is don't buy everything at once, the pants that are a comfy fit at 5 months might not be so comfy at month 8.  The second suggestion is limit your color palette.  Sure it's fun to have a wardrobe full of variety but it's way easier to have a few pops of color that can mix and match instead of having to make individual outfits.  Being pregnant in the Winter is great because I can use scarves and chunky jewelry for color.  Here are my top picks, straight from my closet:





Ivory Pintuck Maternity Blouse
$76 - seraphine.com



You need a pair of well fitting jeans.  I have two pairs of demi panel jeans (one boyfriend and one skinny leg) from Gap Maternity and they are awesome.  However, demi panel isn't as comfortable since my third trimester so for longevity I suggest these Indigo Blue from Motherhood.  The price is great, the fit is very comfortable for advanced pregnancy, and they are stylish.

I can not stress this enough.  Liz Lange tank tops from Target!  I plan to wear them even when I'm not pregnant, by far the best tank I've ever bought.  They don't ride up, and they completely cover my bra.  I love them so much I have five of them and wear one every single day.  I like to wear my belly support band over my tank and under my blouse for extra comfort.

Liz Lange leggings - I have the basic and the ponte knit, both are worth their weight in gold.  For a small price I have some nice opaque leggings that go with everything.  They also allow me to wear my leg warmers and boots for extra warmth on chilly days.  I'm tempted to wear these when I'm not pregnant too, they don't have a panel and are nice quality - no one would be able to tell they were maternity and they don't create the dreaded muffin top.

The most beautiful tops I have are from Seraphine from A Pea in the Pod.  I didn't pay full price though, Destination Maternity has sales often and I have been lucky to grab some at reduced cost.  I have several in different colors and they add some variety and "pretty" to my closet.  I think they are perfect for work and can easily be dressed up for evening.

Gap Maternity Modern Slacks are the best pants for work.  They wash really well and are perfect for wearing long hours at the office.  Not all pants have a comfortable belly panel that doesn't budge throughout the day and these maintain their shape and don't stretch as the day goes on.

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Monday, February 23, 2015

All our bags are packed and we're ready to go...

The infamous What's in my Hospital Bag post.  Doesn't everyone do one of these!  I read dozens and dozens of blogs and Pinterest lists to decide what I needed, what made common sense to pack, and what we should leave at home.  I did more research on this one topic than I did my entire junior year of college.  It's been a while since I've had a hospital stay, and in past experience I never knew I was going to need to stay the night in the hospital so it was a quick phone call to mom with a list of what to bring.  But in this case I have some time to prepare for the inevitable and after our little "scare", I didn't want to put it off any longer!

So here they are:

This is our labor and delivery bag with a document folder and toiletry bag (both fit nicely inside the bag).


In our childbirth class we were highly encouraged to pack two bags so the black bag on the left is the one we need right away and the one on the right is the one we will need once we get into our recovery room. The little yellow chevron bag has baby items that are so small I'm scared they'll get lost, there is plenty of space in the duffle bag for it but I took it out for the photo.

But what's inside?

For L&D:

  • Mama -  dark robe, slippers, fuzzy gripper socks, earbuds, hair ties and chapstick (in my purse) 
  • Daddy - slippers, pajama pants and t-shirt
  • Snacks - gum, protein bars, lollipops, water, and coins/dollar bills for the vending machine
  • Toiletries - dry shampoo, 1 set of nursing pads (just in case), mini shampoo and conditioner, deodorant, body soap, face wipes, toothpaste, and contacts.  We have several items that need to be added last minute.
  • Suggestions from childbirth class -  a tube sock tied off with two tennis balls inside and a tube sock tied off filled with rice.  It was also suggested to bring an empty bag for any leftover goodies in our room. We packed all three.  

Documents: Book from childbirth class and paperwork for birth certificate.  My ID and insurance card easily accessible inside my purse.

For Recovery:

  • Mama - 1 set of pajamas, lanolin, 2 pairs gel pads, 4 pairs undies, 2 nursing tanks, 2 pairs of lounge pants, maxi dress and sweater for the ride home
  • Daddy - sleep mask, jeans and t-shirt for the ride home, long sleeve athletic shirt, 2 pairs of socks, 3 pairs undies, and ball cap
  • Baby Girl - baby book for footprints, nail file, 1 blanket, 1 swaddle, 1 sleepsack, burp cloth, hair comb, pacifier, 2 pairs booties, 2 pairs mittens, 3 hats (because I can't decide), going home outfit, 2 footed sleepers (just in case), and a carseat of course.  All of the items except the blankets are packed in the separate yellow bag.

Last Minute Items: Camera, ipad with charger, phone charger, makeup bag, hairbrush and comb, face soap for both of us, toothbrushes, my glasses, curling iron (just in case)

Maybe: Our own blanket and pillows in colorful cases.  We may or may not bring these but just in case I have two pillows dressed in dark gray pillowcases ready to go.  I usually bring my pillow anytime I sleep away from home.